Relationship Selling – How To Do It Right
In this article, you’ll learn exactly how to do relationship selling, by following an eight-step prescriptive formula.
Learning, implementing and following a sales process is one of the most important things you can learn in sales.
A relationship sales process will give you consistency and will simple to use framework to guide your potential clients towards the sale.
Read on to learn how to do relationship selling, and how you can implement it into your sales strategy.
What Is Relationship Selling?
Put simply; relationship selling is a process in which you position yourself as a trusted advisor to your potential clients.
Instead of seeing you as a salesperson or commodity; you genuinely learn their issues and pain points, their ideal outcomes and needs for a solution – and then prescribe what they need to get them there.
Building sales relationships not only helps you on the front end make more potential income; but builds a lasting relationship with clients so you can sell and serve them for life.
Related article: How To Position Yourself As A Trusted Advisor
The Benefits Of Learning How To Do Relationship Selling
Learning how to do relationship selling (also known as a relationship-based sales formula or sales framework) is key to consistently succeeding in sales.
Some of the benefits of learning how to do relationship selling outlined in this guide include:
- It creates a system; allowing you to close sales like a road map
- Certainty – for both you and your potential clients
- It allows you to control the process and conversation
By learning how to do relationship selling, you’ll feel a lot more confident while talking to potential clients, because you’ll have a clear system in which to operate your sales conversations with.
Learn more: How To Stop Winging It, And Learn Exactly How To Close Consistent Sales With Ease
Relationship Selling – How To Do It Right
Below is a detailed breakdown if you want to master and know how to do relationship selling.
#1 – Prospecting
The first part to learning how to do relationship selling and the relationship sales process, is finding out who your ideal prospects are, and then targeting them using prospecting strategies.
Prospecting can generally be two-fold – inbound and outbound.
Inbound prospecting is putting together systems that drive traffic into your business.
Generally, it includes pay per click advertising, print media, SEO, and social media.
Outbound prospecting is proactively reaching out to your potential clients with social media, email, cold calling and networking events.
Related article: The Two Types Of Sales Prospecting
#2 – Building Rapport
The first part of any sales conversation, and next step to learning how to do relationship selling is building rapport with your potential clients.
Rapport us crucial if you wish to hold a relationship-based sales conversation with your potential clients.
It’s also important because people buy from people they like and trust.
By building rapport, you’ll be able to ask deep diving questions that can ultimately lead to a buying decision.
Related article: A Guide To Building Sales Rapport
#3 – Qualifying Your Potential Clients Early
The third step to learning how to do relationship selling, is qualifying your potential clients early in the consultation or discovery call.
A lot of Sales Professionals and Business Owners make the error of speaking with people they think are potential clients – but end up not being qualified to either afford their product or service or aren’t the decision maker.
Qualifying early saves you time, energy, and money.
The qualifying framework to add to your 8 steps of relationship selling, is borrowed from an acronym called BANT.
Originally designed by IBM, it’s an easy to remember framework to remember what you need to ask to qualify your potential clients correctly.
BANT stands for:
- Budget
- Authority
- Need
- Time frame
Further reading: BANT In Sales – How Does It Work?
#4 – Pre-Framing The Conversation
The fourth segment to learning how to do relationship selling, is what makes our sales process very different from the others out there.
We teach something called a pre-frame. This happens prior to your deep dive sales conversation. This is also known in sales circles as an intent statement.
The deep diving sales conversation you will have with your potential client, is called the frame.
You’ll have the opportunity to ask questions, and ‘frame the conversation’ in a way which will ultimately lead to a decision being made – either proceeding with a sale or deciding you may not be the right fit for one another.
The pre-frame is the conversation you have prior to the frame; in this case, it is what’s discussed prior to going into your deep dive sales conversation.
During the pre-frame, you want to cover three important things:
- Ensure all decision makers are present
- Let them know that you’ll be asking a lot of questions, to work out whether you can in fact help and serve them and their needs
- Give them comfort that at the end of the conversation, it is more than OK to say no if they’re not interested. Also let them know that many people use the “I need to think about it” as a way of covering for no. By giving them comfort, they’ll be more transparent.
The reason the pre-frame is key, is for two reasons.
Firstly, you’re removing two core sales objections up front – the I need to think about it objection, and I need to speak to objection.
Secondly – you’re getting permission to ask deep diving questions, which is the next part to learning how to do relationship selling.
Using a pre-frame will be a game changer for your business and overall sales process, because you’ll get to the underlying truth faster than using a traditional sales methodology.
#5 – Questions: The Foundation To Learn How To Do Relationship Selling
The most important subject when learning how to do relationship selling, as well as your overall ability to close more sales, – is the art of asking the right questions – and then diving deeper when you actively listen to their responses.
At The 5% Institute, we emphasise the importance of asking questions because we believe in using a relationship-based sales approach.
By asking the right questions – you’ll be able to help guide your potential client toward the sale and help them sell themselves on the need for a solution.
During your relationship-based sales conversations, we recommend asking the following question examples:
- Finding pain
- Learning about their ideal outcome
- How they make buying decisions
- Why they’re speaking with you
- How long they’ve had their issue
We’ve written numerous articles on questioning and question categories, and recommend you read them to learn more. Check out the linked articles below to find out how.
- Sales Probing Questions
- Open Ended Sales Questions
- 10 x Questions To Ask A Potential Client
- 5 x Closing Questions To Win More Sales
Furthermore; if you’d like to learn about helping people sell themselves using questions, then we recommend learning about tie-down sales techniques.
Tie-down sales techniques are questions you ask that get an ‘agreed’ response.
Also known as trial closes – tie-down sales techniques help your potential clients sell themselves prior to having to ask for the sale.
Further reading: Tie-Down Sales Techniques – Your Ultimate Guide
An important note: finding pain is one of the most important ingredients for your questions and learning how to do relationship selling.
This is because if you can’t find friction or any issues with their current situation – they won’t need to make a change.
The article below details how to do so effectively, without being pushy or breaking rapport.
Further reading: Pain Points & Sales – Your Ultimate Guide
#6 – Discussing Money
Discussing money is another important subject when learning how to do relationship selling as well as relationship-based sales process, because you can use the discussion to build monetary value around what a solution for their problem and pain points will mean.
When you’re discussing money, you ultimately want to understand two important things:
- What is it costing them by having these issues? Learn the financial and personal impact of what the pain points mean.
- How much would they pay to fix it, and have a solution?
Discussing this here makes asking for the sale, and your closing questions a breeze.
#7 – Presenting
Once money has been clearly discussed, the next stage of learning how to do relationship selling is presenting your solution.
Many Sales Professionals handle presenting incorrectly and do something we call ‘premature presentation’.
As per our article in Entrepreneur, premature presentation is when you present your product or service prior to understanding what they need solved and hope that something you say sticks and resonates.
This spray and pray method are outdated and won’t help your closing rate.
Instead – when you’re presenting your product or service, we recommend you do so by prescribing it to their pain points and demonstrate how each of their problems will be solved with specific features and benefits you have.
Using a prescription approach as a specialist would, will align you as a trusted adviser, rather than just another salesperson trying to make a quick sale.
#8 – Handling Objections & Asking For The Sale
Finally, the last stage of learning how to do relationship selling is handling their objections, and asking for the sale.
Although many people advocate using word tracks and sales scripts, we don’t recommend using either.
Instead – we recommend using a simple and easy to remember objections framework.
The framework is:
- Listen carefully
- Repeat back the objection, and ask them to expand
- Validate the area of concern
- Re-frame the concern
- Confirm you’re on the same page
To learn how to do this in detail, read the article here to find out how.
Once you’ve handled all their areas of concern, simply ask if they’d like you to help them achieve what they intend to have solved and have them sign any agreements you may have in place.
Relationship Selling – Final Thoughts
Learning how to do relationship selling is crucial to your sales success, because it gives you consistency, as well as an easy to follow road map.
By learning how to do relationship selling, you’ll lead your potential clients on a journey and positive sales experience, rather than position yourself as just another salesperson or commodity.
The sales process is the most fundamental, and important thing to master in sales if you wish to close consistently.
If you’d like to learn about our sales process in more detail, you can join the 7 Day Sales Challenge for free here.
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